(04-17-2015 09:38 AM)Devilness Chant Wrote: I can assure you I don't need or want pity. What didn't kill me made me a heck of a lot stronger and I ended up with one heck of a sense of humor. Laughter is the best medicine.
Amen To That! Huggies! No Pity Here I Promise but just a BIG FREAKING HUG GuRL!!!!
I know Your pain! It reminded me of good times and ofcoarse some horrible bad times. RL & SL in different topics!
But it also reminded me of Loving Moments in SL & RL
One Major Moment is how My Grandmother use to tell me the saying that:
"What doesn't Kill ya! Will Make "You" Stronger!"
After a while and growing up a little bit my self. I would start off My reply to The World's Bestest Grandmother in the World that some how her voice was like giving you a Hug over the phone each time she spoke, n matter how far away you were and no matter how many many many oh so many years you had not been near her.
"Grandma please forgive me for cussing but I must be one tuff a&& Cookie then!"
She would laugh and then say something long the line of Now Honey.... and give me words of encouragement and ect. for what ever was going on and ect.
So Thank You for that! BIG TIME!
I remember the Love I saw in Kittycats when i 1st started. it was Freaking every where It was like being in a Dream World. It is not all over the place like it use to be. [ which i will leave out comments in my mind that would have gone here lolol man i got an itch but i not going to itch it but there more to the eye than the eye can see is all i' going to say here].
But the Love is still here and very very strong and Fun. It is just not all over the place like it use to be. Which is fine by me. Not Great But it fine. I can't force people either. And don't' want to either. Just wish and pray for them.
I do dislike some of it not just because of it but because of new comers like I once was. I wish for them to see what I saw "ALL OVER" the place. I want them to experience what I and others have when first coming in. Not the hate and stupidity and well ya'll know.
The Fun and Love is still here and it will Grow again "BECAUSE" Love truley Concurs ALL. I Love making new collars and new beds and houses and playing with the kitties and laughing and joking and the joy they bring to some other RL people in My Life. There are certain things they will not enjoy any more nor get the chance to enjoy because of some messiness ( i guess is what i will call it) in the KC community and a little bit that has nothign to do with the KC community. But that is all Good. The LOVE was shown to them and they were given other adventures to tackle in the KC Community by the Love that is STILL HERE and STILL VERY VERY STRONG! It too is one tuff a&& Cookie. There has been so so so much KittyCatS Community Love shown to these other RL ones that there hasn't been enough time in a day for them to adventure it all!!!!!! hehehe
I to want that Love back every where. It may never go there and I totally understand why and it all good but the Love is still here and strong and will GROW so freaking HUGE again like it was before or even more so. So no worries Devilness it will come
As for remembering things I miss the dang classes there use to be. Man those were so helpful Lirith and others had. (sorry spelling not my thing ) Now I couldnt' make them all but i did try. And they were there and i learned so much every time. It kind of makes me think about what i'm not learning now because they are no more.
Also I am putting less $$$ in SL at different moments in my life because i'm working on an RL Business. Not a big one but in hopes it will grow to at least a small one . hehehehehe. So that those other RL ones can have the things I want to give and provide for them. I have always but all my L$ back into SL and only cashed out to pay land tier for those other RL ones. hahahaha But My point is that I was blessed that I didn't really see the Ugly when i didn't spend as much on kitties. Some did drop me but that is there loss. there are some i dont' understand that can't say hello and just want to TP me places lolol oh well. I dont have time to tp to each and every place or even the time for hellos so it all good with me. But those that I can't TP to that are understanding I Love ya More. I only had one person take me off their list of TPs but it all good I get the same TP's they were sending out form like 3 to 4 other people. I was just "$$$$$$$$$$" to them in the 1st place I think. and that is all good. I dont' blame them. got to get the Kibble some how lol.
I do put price caps on certain kitties and yes I not going to lie my price cap is not at times depending on the kitty and the 'ol L$-bank account a fair price for such a kitty but if i get it for a price lower then good for me. i know who i got it from and will go back when there are more L$ to spare and share the L$ Love. Or at least see wht else they got and send others looking their way when i can.
Some times it works out some times it don;t when sending others. I not goign to try and get claim for some of the jpeople sent either like some people do. i dont' want nothing else I already got a badass kitty at auction. hehehehe. Shoot or yes if you get a kitty at a Badass price send them a little tip in their window. Or a collar that they can keep or sale or some thing else. it is still sharing the love. And paying it forward. Keep the LOVE growing.
Also I like to remember that we all come from different back grounds. "In SL and RL" So some people don't know how to behave them selves. Some just don't care or were never taught. So I got to remember this. But ALSO!!!! never forget the backgrounds there are many!!!! "From All Over the World" in many launguages and some times things not just in languages BUT ALSO in how things are done in life just "don't translate" right to others. some times in the same country.
In RL Got family came to the States from another Country a few years back and well just the way of things were different in doing. People I have seen forget this. here in SL. But doesn't make them all right "nor" all wrong. Let's just say [ oh dang it. Not going to go there] but i will say there are some no-nos no matter what country.
But Love will concur all. and will grow. It just may not reach some or some areas.
Soooooooo No Reason to go too far. Just sit a spell and Love with Find You. Have Fun. It still here just need to look in a diff spot or hang your Hat in a different area of the community for a while. Trust me there is soooo much Love still out there soooooo soooo soooo much Freaking Fun still out there that there just isn't enough time in a day for all of it!!!!!
ok now that I probably wrote a novel now I go back to that Love and Fun that is still in SL and still in the KittyCatS Community!!!! And do some Love Growing of my self hehehe:heart
Love the Love
I Remember When.....
RE: I Remember When..... 
Trust me there is soooo much Love still out there soooooo soooo soooo much Freaking Fun still out there that there just isn't enough time in a day for all of it!!!!! 
