KittyCatS Love & Frustration

[Arwen Swordthain]

I think alot of us were guilty of losing our cool. I recall one occasion where I lost it and wrote a very long post in response to an attack by Rene upon me. Upon hitting post I recieved notification that Callie had closed the thread as I was drafting my response. I did send Callie a PM thanking her for saving me from myself.
Mostly I have always tried not to respond to him but his lies and accusations got to me that day. I believe it may have been thread where he accused me of being the reason for his rules regardin muting and banning. I have always read the threads with interest and tried hard not to lose my temper and respond to him. When calm I knew not to respond because I knew the deluge of abuse I would recieve in return, another reason I am thankful for this calm thread, as you said Minx its a "safe place" for us to express our views and feelings calmly. For the longest time no one even knew I was being subjected to this abuse simply for not buying the profiler. It wasn't until I was banned and auctioneers noticed they couldn't load my cats into profilers that I began to talk to people about it. For me muting him wasn't an end to it as he found other ways to harass me and spoil my enjoyment of auctions.