hi everyone,
thanks for keeping the conversation polite. we WILL remove any post whose sole purpose is to attack a person.
we have had people work things out in private who have posted on this forum and we appreciate that. but just know clearly, that if a post appears which is blatantly attacking a person we WILL remove it for ignoring our warnings.
thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts and experience w/o ripping apart a person.
here is an example: (using the cattery as an example)
person one:
"i really love the cattery, i find it so useful! i don't see how you don't like it... but i love it"
person two:
"oh breeding inworld is the only way to go! cattery breeding for me feels odd! intersting how you like it so much! tell me more why?"
person one:
"oh i can be at home watching tv and check in with my cats, and pair them! i love it"
person two:
"oh wow i love to just focus on a program when i watch it! i could never do anything but watch a show, but i now understand more!"
person one:
"oh wow, how interesting! i guess sometimes i feel like watching tv is a waste of time but i get it!"
etc....
the above is about ideas... and seeking to listen and learn and both do not agree.
here is what is NOT ok...
person one:
"i really love the cattery, i find it so useful! i don't see how you don't like it... but i love it"
person two:
"OMG that is so lazy!!! you should have your cats inworld! they cant even run around and have fresh air! you are a horrible person?"
person one:
"huh? it's a tool i like to use, how am i horrible? i think you are off your meds you nut!"
person two:
"OMG i don't take meds!! how dare you, i am so offended by you!!! now i may need meds from you!!!"
person one:
"you always did need them! glad to help you realize it! your cats must hate you!!!"
see the difference???
i hope so!
thanks for your cooperation.
again sharing YOUR experience is OK. attacking others is NOT ok and those posts will be removed.
thanks
